One of the most common questions I hear is, “How do I hookup with shemales?” I’ll try to remove some of the mystery and help you meet the shemale of your dreams. When you meet your special shemale girlfriend you’ll feel like the luckiest guy on earth! That’s because shemales are exotic, alluring, and usually gorgeous with a strong sex drive. Shemales are more feminine than most women and they respond to you much in the same way a biological woman would, the main difference being in her “little surprise” hiding in her panties. Hey, you’re a liberal guy who is ready to experience the exotic shemale world, so how do you meet a shemale?
First, a friendly warning is in order. There are many Transsexuals who do not appreciate the term shemale. I know, I know… you don’t mean any harm, but it is a term derived from pornography so many of us don’t like the term. I don’t care either way to be quite honest, but many of my T-Girl girlfriends don’t like the term at all. In fact, any mention of the word “shemale” is a deal breaker. Armed with this knowledge, you won’t make that fatal mistake in your quest for shemale romance. The simple solution to this is to just refer to her in feminine pronouns (she and her) and wait for her to say what she calls herself. You could politely ask what she calls herself but it probably isn’t even necessary. My friend Amber Lynn wrote the T-Girl Dating Guide for admirers of tranny women. You can get a free copy of her dating guide by visiting her site or by signing up for her newsletter on this page. It’s a good read if you are serious about dating shemales. Before you head out to hookup with a gorgeous shemale, take a few minutes to educate yourself about the transgender world and the different types of T-Girls. It can help you narrow your search for your perfect shemale hookup.
Here are a few of the terms used to describe various members of the transgender community, along with a very brief explanation of what the term means;
Shemale – a porn term sometimes considered offensive. Many drag queens and other transgender folks embrace the term but be careful with its use.
M2F or MtF – male to female transsexual
T-Girl - A general term used to refer to a broader spectrum of transgendered folks in the male to female community.
Transgender – an umbrella term used to describe persons who deviate from their biological gender. This term is generally not considered offensive.
Transsexual - often misspelled “transexual” is a person who identifies with the sex opposite to their biological gender. Many transsexuals will undergo partial or complete gender reassignment.
Tranny or Trannie – an abbreviated version of transsexual. It is sometimes seen as an offensive term.
Chick with a Dick – Another porn phrase used to describe shemales and other T-Girls. Be careful!
Crossdresser - a word used for the outdated term “transvestite.” Crossdressers are often heterosexual, married men. However, they may date men for the thrill of being treated as a woman.
A little common courtesy and understanding will go a long way toward getting you hooked up with shemales or other types of T-Girls. You may be looking for sex hookups or a long-term relationship, or something in between. It’s all up to you. Dont’ worry — you’ll find shemales looking for the same thing. You just need to know where to look.
If you want to chat with shemales, watch them on web cams, and ask them intimate sexual questions you should check out our shemale web cams. You can join the web cam site for free and chat with them. If you want a private show you can upgrade your membership but that isn’t required. This might be a good idea if you’re looking to hookup with a shemale and you don’t know much about us. Just log into the web cams and ask your most pressing sexual questions.
You can find a listing of T-Girl friendly nightclubs and bars at TS4Play.com. Since these nightclubs and bars come and go fairly quickly, no online listing is likely to be completely accurate. I suggest that you do a Google.com search for gay bars in your community. Then look them up to see if they have drag shows or if they appear to be T-Girl friendly. You can always call and just ask them. You’ll find them to be friendly and forthright with information.
The most common way men hookup with shemales nowadays is through online dating sites that specialize in shemales and T-Girls. You’re likely to find hundreds or even thousands of shemales and T-Girls looking for hookups in your general area. If you live in a smaller town or rural area you may have to expand your search to the nearest cities but you’ll find shemales who want to hookup with men like you. You can visit our shemale dating page for more information and local photo profiles.
Remember to be a gentleman and consider her needs. She wants to be treated like a lady. She wants you to appreciate her femininity and beauty. Take a little time to get to know her. She may not be your type. She may or may not be comfortable with her genitals. She may have undesirable traits. These dating sites don’t do background checks so a little due diligence will be a good thing. Check her out. If something seems wrong then move on. There are lots of shemales to choose from.
Be careful – practice safe sex – have fun with your shemale hookups!